I’m Not In Love

I’m not in love, so don’t forget it
It’s just a silly phase I’m going through
And just because I call you up
Don’t get me wrong, don’t think you’ve got it made
I’m not in love, no-no
(It’s because…)

I like to see you, but then again
That doesn’t mean you mean that much to me
So if I call you, don’t make a fuss
Don’t tell your friends about the two of us
I’m not in love, no-no
(It’s because…)

Lyrics from the song “Im Not In Love” by 10cc

Females seem to agree with me on knowing alot of men that seem to NOT know what they want. **=/ hmm…**
And then Ive had a couple of conversations with men who complain that women don’t know what they want when they said they want a good man but go for the asshole types. **another hmm…**

So who is right & who is wrong?

If you ask me I think people just need to start hooking up with people they are compatible with.
You may not know what you what but go with what fits you instead of what you would like to fit. (note this is NOT settling)

Own up to your own actions ladies & gents…

LOVE has been the heavy conversation topic of choice these days. I feel for anyone in a failing relationship. I am no stranger to pain & heartache myself. We often have many questions such as: what do i do now? how can i move on? where did we go wrong? …etc.

You should ask yourself: what is love?, Do i understand it?, And is this person worth all the pain they cause me?

I love you means that I accept you for the person you are and that I don’t wish to change you into someone else, its means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let you go.

A relationship needs both people to be on board. If only one person’s heart is in it its not going to last. TRUST ME. but i know you will try because your under that ‘love spell‘, your such a good person that you wont give up on them even though they have already given up on you. Please re read the words in blue again! If they do not show it, they do mean it!

Sometimes we need time apart to understand whats going on with ourselves & emotions. It doesn’t mean its over for good but space helps you find yourself & this is where the truth comes out! Don’t you want to know the honest truth? if not please stop looking at my blog! RIGHT NOW!

If we love something and let it go, when it comes back that means it was truly meant for us. I know letting go is scary but its necessary & its to help us all to grow up. You’ll do yourself more harm holding on to something that wasn’t meant to be. TRUST! Let the other person correct their own mistakes! Allow them time to change while you cool off. And please try & remember you control the pain. Putting your foot down & gaining control avoids pain.

Good Luck to you all in your journey of life. Love the right way . . .

- Just don’t say nobody never told you.