” The truth is, everyone you meet will hurt you at one point or another. You just need to decide who is worth the pain.”

-Unknown

Oh the things that wanders through my mind at the wee hours of the night. (3:45am)

insomnia

“It takes courage to grow up & become who you really are”

- E.E. Cummings

E.E. Cummings, Maya Angelou and now What does “courage” mean to you!

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Have a good day everyone =)

Idunno why but this has been in my Queue for months & I’ve been pretty resistant to watch it! I think maybe because of the time length (128 minutes) or the design of the poster -which might i add if you don’t know much about the film is pretty misleading FYI- lol

But for whatever reason I decided to go for it! and SO glad I did! What a beautiful film of traveling & finding ones self! *smile*

Its a movie about journey! lucky me I already found myself minus the traveling but that’s on my list of things to-do!

You know that feeling of breathing in fresh air gives u? well that’s how this film made me feel! =]

-on another note Check out my other blog -> Art Slut I Am

“the expected is what we live for. the unexpected is wat changes our lives.”

Have a great day everyone & don’t be afraid to breathe in fresh air ever once in a while  . . .

So once again my Facebook status has dont it again!

Some people hate it, some people love it… i really dont care.

RESPECT IT!

Females seem to agree with me on knowing alot of men that seem to NOT know what they want. **=/ hmm…**
And then Ive had a couple of conversations with men who complain that women don’t know what they want when they said they want a good man but go for the asshole types. **another hmm…**

So who is right & who is wrong?

If you ask me I think people just need to start hooking up with people they are compatible with.
You may not know what you what but go with what fits you instead of what you would like to fit. (note this is NOT settling)

Own up to your own actions ladies & gents…

Its really important to take your own advice or else why preach it?

Many things ponder through this head of mine. As do many feelings flow through this body of mine. Its maintaining a balance that keeps me sane.

Its a huge responsibility that not many people can handle but if handled correctly could make a major impact. With that said I don’t abuse my power. But sometimes being a woman is knowing when to keep your mouth shut!

“One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you cant utter” – James Earl Jones

*Le sigh*

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LOVE has been the heavy conversation topic of choice these days. I feel for anyone in a failing relationship. I am no stranger to pain & heartache myself. We often have many questions such as: what do i do now? how can i move on? where did we go wrong? …etc.

You should ask yourself: what is love?, Do i understand it?, And is this person worth all the pain they cause me?

I love you means that I accept you for the person you are and that I don’t wish to change you into someone else, its means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let you go.

A relationship needs both people to be on board. If only one person’s heart is in it its not going to last. TRUST ME. but i know you will try because your under that ‘love spell‘, your such a good person that you wont give up on them even though they have already given up on you. Please re read the words in blue again! If they do not show it, they do mean it!

Sometimes we need time apart to understand whats going on with ourselves & emotions. It doesn’t mean its over for good but space helps you find yourself & this is where the truth comes out! Don’t you want to know the honest truth? if not please stop looking at my blog! RIGHT NOW!

If we love something and let it go, when it comes back that means it was truly meant for us. I know letting go is scary but its necessary & its to help us all to grow up. You’ll do yourself more harm holding on to something that wasn’t meant to be. TRUST! Let the other person correct their own mistakes! Allow them time to change while you cool off. And please try & remember you control the pain. Putting your foot down & gaining control avoids pain.

Good Luck to you all in your journey of life. Love the right way . . .

- Just don’t say nobody never told you.

So, let me set the record straight before you all have expectations of me. There are a few things you should know about me:
i LOVE the art world! love to breathe, feel, taste, smell it! It oozes from my pores into the world & than the life of others.
i LOVE fashion! my love for it grows daily. i find inspiration from the simplest things and take that to a DIFFERENT level! must be doing something rite based of the feedback i receive from people. (but people lie all the time, so who’s to say what is true)….
i LOVE music! Ugh! to talk about this subject is pointless because words could not capture the movement of my emotions that effects my core! (see pointless) To keep it simple and straight to the point “music is my high”….
my LOVE for self varies per day. keep that in mind while you read the thoughts from my head here!

I’ve been told i need to open up to the world & show my talent so with this blog thats what i tend todo. Anyone that knows me, knows that i always have a book on me. I’ve been writing for years! I’m always wandering around aimlessly in the city or going places (never know where ill be next week) My reason for this is “I love life & all that it has to offer” so i go out & live it!

I have alot to say & i know people will read it or they wont. Its all the same to me.
-Ciao