How to love. . .
by Chanel on Jan.20, 2010, under Blog
LOVE has been the heavy conversation topic of choice these days. I feel for anyone in a failing relationship. I am no stranger to pain & heartache myself. We often have many questions such as: what do i do now? how can i move on? where did we go wrong? …etc.
You should ask yourself: what is love?, Do i understand it?, And is this person worth all the pain they cause me?
I love you means that I accept you for the person you are and that I don’t wish to change you into someone else, its means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let you go.
A relationship needs both people to be on board. If only one person’s heart is in it its not going to last. TRUST ME. but i know you will try because your under that ‘love spell‘, your such a good person that you wont give up on them even though they have already given up on you. Please re read the words in blue again! If they do not show it, they do mean it!
Sometimes we need time apart to understand whats going on with ourselves & emotions. It doesn’t mean its over for good but space helps you find yourself & this is where the truth comes out! Don’t you want to know the honest truth? if not please stop looking at my blog! RIGHT NOW!
If we love something and let it go, when it comes back that means it was truly meant for us. I know letting go is scary but its necessary & its to help us all to grow up. You’ll do yourself more harm holding on to something that wasn’t meant to be. TRUST! Let the other person correct their own mistakes! Allow them time to change while you cool off. And please try & remember you control the pain. Putting your foot down & gaining control avoids pain.
Good Luck to you all in your journey of life. Love the right way . . .
- Just don’t say nobody never told you.
January 20th, 2010 on 11:50 am
Nice piece CH. Love can be a very vague topic,its good to see you wrap it up the way you did. It seems this topic always comes after sentimental holidays and right before the over-commercialized valentines day. I think the majority of couples go into relationships without knowing what either side needs to grow cohesively. We jump in with two feet without knowing what love is. End result being the emotional stress and squander of time trying to make sense of what went sour.I think space and knowing what we need and not what we want in a relationship is key for growth. I had friend tell me a relationship is a business deal and the best deals are made when both partners get what they need the most from each other. Truth being Lazy Love doesn’t last long. You heard that from me first! – Jus
January 20th, 2010 on 12:54 pm
That person will learn the hard way. We all grow at different speeds. Thank you Jus for reading honestly. People need to learn to love the RIGHT WAY i cant stress that enuff! We all love 4 different reasons but wen done right you achieve inner peace & have less to complain about. i like to call it “a steady HIGH” no1 wants tobe on “cloud 9″ anymore its to artificial.
February 19th, 2010 on 7:12 pm
I really like when people are expressing their opinion and thought. So I like the way you are writing
February 21st, 2010 on 12:55 pm
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